What My First Heartbreak Taught Me

How Merle learned about love, loss, and letting go.
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  • She's hot

    Matthew The NinjaMatthew The NinjaVor Tag
  • I'll bet this video is closure for the 3.5 year relationship she mentioned

    Incog NitoIncog NitoVor 9 Tage
  • Did anyone else almost have a heart attack when they thought aria broke up with her

    Eduardo RamirezEduardo RamirezVor 12 Tage
  • Woman aren’t funny

    Wait that’s A memeWait that’s A memeVor 12 Tage
  • *1 day before valentines day* DE-visions: Let's recommend this..

    SoftijsjeXDSoftijsjeXDVor 15 Tage
  • When I first saw the title and i thought it said what I learnt from my first heart attack. And then I saw merle and I was like😱😱😱😱 But I reread it

    CarnomCarnomVor 17 Tage
  • What happened to your car while you were with your mom?

    VanessaVanessaVor 18 Tage
  • Why not available Indonesian subtitle in your videos?

    Wah YonoWah YonoVor 19 Tage
  • Thanks for this video, just had a break up and I’m having a hard time moving on

    Jason YuJason YuVor 19 Tage
  • And then finally Merle found Aria ❤️

    Charis LeeCharis LeeVor 19 Tage
  • CEO of cruising and crying 🤣

    NaimaNaimaVor 20 Tage
  • When you said The Cranberries i remembered when i got so obsessed with the song Linger after breaking up with a guy i used to date. I used to listen to it every damn day.

    VaniaVaniaVor 21 Tag
  • Thank you Merle. I really needed this :'(

    CassetteCassetteVor 22 Tage
  • I'd like to see if she gets to say the same thing 10 years from now

    Dota AllstarsDota AllstarsVor 24 Tage
  • Ahhhhhhhhh this damn FISHERCATTTTTTTTTT

    Mike PierceMike PierceVor 24 Tage
  • Aw Merle is the best that bf was probably a douchebag

    Oliver QueenOliver QueenVor 25 Tage
  • Merle could be a model, but she’s too pure for that industry ❤️

    Lethargic PandaLethargic PandaVor 25 Tage
  • But.........where's Aria?

    Fuby TVFuby TVVor 25 Tage
  • Not very enlightening. The cat story was heartless. Why did you bring it up???

    Andrew IgnAndrew IgnVor 25 Tage
  • wait im so lost whats happening ?

    Jay KayJay KayVor 25 Tage
  • TUSA?

    Manuel VRManuel VRVor 25 Tage
  • what if you love her I mean someone and you give them chances to hope they change?

    Young ZeusYoung ZeusVor 25 Tage
  • It's been six months since I broke up with my bf. There were a lot of things that led me to this decision. Our relationship lasted 4.5 years. And I'm still in love with him. Deeply in love. He is the One. But he doesn't want to start again. Never ever. Moving on? Letting go? Sounds like a fairytale for me now. :(

    Eszter DanyiEszter DanyiVor 26 Tage
    • @Nina Koch thank you, I appreciate it🙏🏻

      Eszter DanyiEszter DanyiVor 24 Tage
    • Eszter Danyi i‘m really sorry i hope you can find things that distract you and it WILL get better i promise! if you need someone to talk to i‘d love to listen and help make you feel better

      Nina KochNina KochVor 24 Tage
  • 1:21 2:20

    Aditya BorkarAditya BorkarVor 26 Tage
  • Stick shift? Meters? Where the hell are you from, girl? You're definitely not from America!

    Tomás PeixinhoTomás PeixinhoVor 26 Tage
  • Buzzfeed milking tf out of this relationship

    Andrew HuynhAndrew HuynhVor 26 Tage
  • This give me a mini heart attack, don't you dare do this again

    nazliza m.salehnazliza m.salehVor 26 Tage
  • I feel a little sad because I was expecting Aria to pop up and said "aww, but you've got me" and kiss her on the cheek or something like that at the end. But good video nonetheless

    Lim Yi KaiLim Yi KaiVor 26 Tage
  • It says on the description VIDEO Cropped view of crying and attractive woman🤣🤣👿

    First Name Last Name • 300 years agoFirst Name Last Name • 300 years agoVor 26 Tage
  • I was afraid this was about her and aria

  • omg i thought she broke up with aria phew

    Mason NamanMason NamanVor 27 Tage
  • Oh This is low. Exploiting people emotions who root for Aria and Merle. We know why they made this video and why they chose this title. It's time for another "why i left buzzfeed video" from Merle and Aria. They have enough fandom to make it on their own.

    Aibek AdigineevAibek AdigineevVor 27 Tage
  • Please post a Valentine’s Day w aria

    Lolita HolidayLolita HolidayVor 27 Tage
  • Well that took a dark turn 😭😔

    Ian MckellIan MckellVor 27 Tage
  • She’s gonna cheat on him. Calling it now.

    SaceedAbulSaceedAbulVor 28 Tage
  • tq

    Syed HazimSyed HazimVor 28 Tage
  • So basically the fisher cat taught u how to cope with love?

    Daxton GamezDaxton GamezVor 28 Tage
  • Merle and Aria are a cute couple

    Jeremy BurlingameJeremy BurlingameVor 28 Tage
  • If u didn't breakup ...u wouldn't have been with Aria !

    benjamin john josebenjamin john joseVor 28 Tage
  • Milking the relationship still?

    thedxdydzthedxdydzVor 28 Tage
  • 2:30 If you don't say this when you talk about driving then you don't really drive stick shift 😂

    Heyahana K.Heyahana K.Vor 28 Tage
  • omg, it's not aria. I'm so happy now

    Merr BearMerr BearVor 28 Tage
  • Does anyone know the name of that plant behind her??

    Ilse De KeijzerIlse De KeijzerVor 28 Tage
  • thnkszzz

    Rajesh palaskarRajesh palaskarVor 29 Tage
  • Diddd sheeee brakkeee upppp wittthhhh arrriiiaaa Edit: nvrmd 😅

    andrew hopsonandrew hopsonVor 29 Tage
  • I got a breakup ad before this. Coincidence? I think not.

    Krisha AsharKrisha AsharVor 29 Tage
  • Life isn't fair.

    coasterb1coasterb1Vor 29 Tage
  • the baby fisher cat story wow :(

    ASmartWorldASmartWorldVor 29 Tage
  • Omg the first thought that came to my mind was wtf did she broke up with aria??

    Aaru DevAaru DevVor 29 Tage
  • Why is this so relatable

    Big Fella MiloBig Fella MiloVor 29 Tage
  • I got scared her and Aria were over. I was like NOOO

    Afoma OfforAfoma OfforVor 29 Tage
  • The advice at the end is gold

    Piotr ChylareckiPiotr ChylareckiVor 29 Tage
  • she should become an actor

    Joe JohnsonJoe JohnsonVor 29 Tage
  • Give me my 5 minutes back please


  • This is the most interesting heartbreak story I've ever heard! What a twist!

    JoyceJoyceVor Monat
  • i felt this so much. even the long distance thing for college ☹️

    Leilani HLeilani HVor Monat
  • 4:47 XD

    DatBoyDatBoyVor Monat
  • "Don't stay with people who aren't dying to be with you" I guess you and Aria are already a couple when you filmed this. 🤔😄

    다이아나다이아나다이아나다이아나Vor Monat
  • She drives stick shift hold up that’s hot 🥵

    Jerry MancillaJerry MancillaVor Monat
  • Dude this girl is so perfect

    illfulillfulVor Monat
  • That was a pretty good metaphor at the end there.

    Omicron942Omicron942Vor Monat
    • What metaphor?

      zd zdzd zdVor 29 Tage
  • Dang girl, that got deep. Poor Fisher cats.

    Paraplegic MomParaplegic MomVor Monat
  • i didnt know what a fisher cat was until today

    Ashlyn SAshlyn SVor Monat
  • I feel you. Driving stick-shift is badass😎

    ItzFuryBlitzItzFuryBlitzVor Monat
  • At this point she needs her own channel

    Charlie RichardsCharlie RichardsVor Monat
  • I felt this

    qt pieqt pieVor Monat
  • What’s her instagram? I need her in my life!!! Like. Actually 🥺🥺

    Brennan MorimotoBrennan MorimotoVor Monat
  • Merle, thank you for this weird yet beautiful message. Just got rejected in the most devastating yet kindest way ever today by this girl I was crushing on forever.

    Chris' #1 FanChris' #1 FanVor Monat
  • Buzzfeed is getting carried by Aria and Merle’s relationship now

    DzumeisterDzumeisterVor Monat
    • Yeah, it feels like one of those high school shows and they are the main characters

      Tomás PeixinhoTomás PeixinhoVor 26 Tage
    • Dzumeister how dare you if you don’t wanna wacth just don’t press on the video poeple actually are interested

      Yoel CampechanoYoel CampechanoVor 27 Tage
    • They should break off like Saf and Tyler

      HorsesaremylifeHorsesaremylifeVor 28 Tage
    • To the EXTREME.

      Ricky MartinezRicky MartinezVor 29 Tage
What My First Heartbreak Taught Me