PART TWO: Why Black Women Are Least Likely to Marry Outside Their Race

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  • But strong & independent womyn don't need marriage, so what's the problem

    Carlos ReutemannCarlos ReutemannVor Tag
  • But some most white men aren't attracted to black women

    B EasyB EasyVor 12 Tage
  • I wouldn't mind dating outside of my race, its just I always ask myself "He might not like black girls." Which is why I get worried.

    jichuversejichuverseVor 13 Tage
  • So Loni wasn't really a "satisfied single".... 😑😑😑

    Ambesa MakubaloAmbesa MakubaloVor 14 Tage
  • Im a white guy and i absolutely love black women . It's up to the girl or guy and no body should think different . Skin color doesn't matter .

    David Wayne GirodDavid Wayne GirodVor 18 Tage
  • I see Tamera rockin Earrings from Adriennes jewelry line

    Carla HachichoCarla HachichoVor 21 Tag
  • I just refuse to date outside my race.

    Shunterria MIllerShunterria MIllerVor 21 Tag
  • I just want a feminine, natural hair black woman...

    Kamikaze KyreKamikaze KyreVor 22 Tage
  • Black women suffer in silence and once certain black men become famous they announce to the world, they dislike black women.No other race of men go to this extreme?!

    Barbara WilliamsonBarbara WilliamsonVor 23 Tage
  • Blank women just tend to speak out more so that's why black men have a bad image. Everyone cheat and break hearts but for some reason it's seems to only be black men that get called out 😂

    Daniel St. JusteDaniel St. JusteVor Monat
  • I felt every part of this show,I've always been hesitant about dating outside of my race...but I decided to give it a try and i am currently in a relationship with a Moroccan man and it is the absolute BEST!!!!

    Reece JReece JVor Monat
  • Also dating outside your raise isnt disloyal... you cant be disloyal to something if loyalty was never there🤔

  • Actual answer from a guy point of view many man believed black women dont find any other raises attractive the main 2 reason we see what happens when a black man dates outside of there raise and you guys hate it. So why wouldn't you feel the same about your own life. 2nd reason when your young usually in highschool people stay in clicks and the african americans were the tightes clicks together especially african women. Now I think about it I dont think anyone else hangout with that click unless in class.

  • There's no right one anywhere honey u got to make your man different

    Malaika PaulMalaika PaulVor Monat
  • Don't fall for the agenda!!! Black love!!!✊🏼✊🏼

    Liz GarciaLiz GarciaVor Monat
  • Yo there is no show 🤣on tv with this much tears. No shade

    Nat ChillNat ChillVor Monat
  • I wonder....maybe more black guys should get white women.

    Mkhululi MxolisiMkhululi MxolisiVor Monat
  • Everyone deserves love period!

    Freshta AbediFreshta AbediVor Monat
  • As a black women a lot of black men didn't have the time a day for me. They wanted a white women. White men and Puerto Rican men have always been interested in me. My Husband is white and black men don't like it one bit

    AbsoluteMdotAbsoluteMdotVor Monat
  • Im very lonely....the bothers im surrounded by just aint cuttin it

    Blak_ Momba305Blak_ Momba305Vor Monat
  • Yeah and the difference is what makes me a bit hesitant.

    Blak_ Momba305Blak_ Momba305Vor Monat
  • Im just tired of society devaluing black women.

    Blak_ Momba305Blak_ Momba305Vor Monat
  • You right. Im about to give it a try. Plus alot of black men dont date black chicks.

    Blak_ Momba305Blak_ Momba305Vor Monat
  • Mass incarceration isn't the reason black women are alone. The reason a lot of women are alone isn't because of race it's because women believe that they are entitled to have high standards for men they date or that they're married to and women believe just because they are women that men don't get to have standards for them, but they do and Men view women with high standards for men with those same high standards the problem for women is the fact that 95% of them are very average very very average and they cannot hold up to the high standards they want from Men so men don't want them.

    Joe NesserJoe NesserVor Monat
  • Tosha looks good with her hair like dat and thick too

    175elias175eliasVor Monat
  • So black guys date white chicks and that’s ok but if a black woman dates another race your turning your back in black guys? WTF is that mentality

    175elias175eliasVor Monat
  • In high school 10th grade I dated a Black girl in my science class Zapora. We got crap the I was destroying her as a black princess. And she was cheating a black man out of her life. This hate only came from black people in our class. We didn’t get any hate from any white person. She couldn’t take the heat we got and ended our relationship. I don’t know what happened to her. But I hope she’s enjoying a good life.

    Robert VanderMayRobert VanderMayVor Monat
  • Marriage is about business. Men know this . Women know it too . Society knows it and thats why the woman, after marriage, will say , whats mine is mine and what's yours is mine too. That's a lopsided business proposition. It really has nothing to do with love of a person. Love of things and opportunities to resources is what that type of love is about. That being said, it makes sense that any woman would want a man of the dominant group. The question is are these black women who marry outside still available to uplift their own group? Their children ? Family members who need help? If these sisters don't reach back to help the average black person, then they have sold out. And that's goes for any woman or man of any race or culture who doesn't reach back with more opportunities for those whom they left behind.

    ScaleScaleVor Monat
  • I love her so much I needed to hear this ❤️💗❤️♥️ God bless you always! Lonnie!

    Israel AguileraIsrael AguileraVor 2 Monate
  • Loyalty to your race, Wtf . Open your mind ladies.

    Hexa DecimalHexa DecimalVor 2 Monate
  • Loni is typical. Overweight, mouthy, sassy..............and LONELY.

    Robert MugabeRobert MugabeVor 2 Monate
  • Ok I cried

    The QueenThe QueenVor 2 Monate
  • It is very rare for a white guy raised in the USA to marry a black woman. 5% of white men in the USA go that way the rest marry white or Asian women.

    cathy2000cathy2000Vor 2 Monate
  • Bed wenching

    Yardley MoiseYardley MoiseVor 2 Monate
  • I am going to present an answer to a quandary that seems to have black women stumped. As I watch in awe as black women go at each other in a desperate search for answers to the challenges of black motherhood, mate selection, black fatherlessness, and a high out of wedlock rate and the burden of being held responsible for it all. I’m called to wonder how come so few black women have considered the obvious. Rather than sit and argue over finding solutions for what ales us in our communities, how come so few black women have simply said enough is enough? Why is it that the answer is sitting right in front of our faces, yet receives almost no consideration from the average black woman? Well, since common sense is not common and most black women seem to suspend all rational thinking when it comes to certain topics, I’m going to spell out to you the solutions I believe will help black women. And no, it won’t take another 200 years to do so… JUST STOP IT. Stop what you ask? First, stop dealing with black males at all, I mean AT ALL. No sex, no dating, no romance, nothing. Stop doing hard target searches to find a good black man, do what black men keep telling you to do, and stop choosing wrong and start choosing, not at all! Raise your sons if you have any but discontinue all romantic aspirations with black males altogether. Do not vet them with 90-day rules, do not audition to be a wife for them, do not cook, clean or support them in any way. Stop fucking them and entertaining their advances. Do not engage them in any romantic/sexual manner at all. JUST STOP IT. That way you never have to worry about choosing the wrong one and you can finally give these dudes what they want. Since black men want to put all the responsibility on you, listen to them and start being responsible. Simply eliminate them from your dating/mating pool and you cure all that ales you in one fail swoop. You can’t choose wrong from a dating pool you never choose from. STOP IT. Second, stop birthing black males. I mean at all. No black male babies. Stop believing that your womb will produce a different type of black man than the majority out there. Stop poring your love, time, energy and attention, sacrificing your personal dreams and goals for them. Stop allowing them entry into this plane of exists at all. Make sex-selective abortions standard operating procedure, it can be done. Girl children have been aborted and killed for thousands of years and continue to this day. Stop having black male children and reproducing his image. Stop allowing him to use your body as the vessel through which he gets here and stop letting him dishonour that gift by then turning around and blaming you for what’s wrong with the world. Simply stop birthing him and that way you cannot be blamed for how you raise him, who you chose to father him and how the black community/race turns out as a result. He thinks he is the prize, that he is the god of the black community, the first cause. Show him who his true god is, deny him access to your womb and access to this earthly plane and in 5 years you’ll see a completely different black man, a completely different black race. See the movie Children of Men to understand. When the women no longer reproduce you, you become an entirely different creature. Show them the power you have and they will be humbled in your presence. Force them to respect you and all that other mess they talk will dissipate instantly. STOP IT.

    C GC GVor 2 Monate
  • Awwww Loni❣️

    CharmaineCharmaineVor 2 Monate
  • Compatibility??? Wow, they racially and economically destroy a group of men........send them off to prison and the next generations later of females of that group, will have a hard time finding mates.... So they then go off and date the same males of history that destroyed her own males in the 1st place? All as to why she comes from the supposed struggle?

    GodzillaGodzillaVor 2 Monate
  • Love is color blind period @ the end of the day we are all human beings period enough with this B.S. !!! There's beauty in every shades nuff said .

    miguel montesinomiguel montesinoVor 2 Monate

      GodzillaGodzillaVor 2 Monate
  • Sorry but Gina is too strong for white, asian, and latin men. The black women in this video are crying because the dream of falling in love with a black man did not happen for them and they secretly hate the Asian girl for snatching up not Akon but Young Jeeeeeeeezzeeeeeey.

    AJ RXAJ RXVor 2 Monate
  • Does nobody remember this woman as being Ms. Reznick from lemonade mouth? 🍋😄

    Sarah ASarah AVor 2 Monate
  • Interracial Romance is fine. I'm an advocate for It. Focus on their personality. If you're attracted to them and there's a connection go for it. Never let anyone tell you how to feel. Your life and business.

    joecool97joecool97Vor 2 Monate
  • Black women have attitude problems therefore even black men afraid to marry them. You need to be more feminine, softer.

    Sasha SSasha SVor 2 Monate
  • Truth being spoken: So many Black women are LONELY & single (bc of the lack of viable Black men) yet they deny it. It's easier to deny it than to face the painful fact that finding a worthy Black male companion is soo hard. And, for many, it will be impossible. We, Black Women, ALL deserve Love like Everybody else.

    ShefightsproductionzShefightsproductionzVor 2 Monate
  • Targeting black men. All men date outside their races on high levels.

    jdlock00jdlock00Vor 2 Monate
  • We must first find true love and complete happiness inside ourselves before we go outside of ourselves to look for it. Self-confidence, self-respect, and positive self-esteem are the key ingredients to finding true love and absolute happiness within ourselves. We can't it by being with a man or woman until we first find it within ourselves.

    Lula DelphineLula DelphineVor 2 Monate
  • I feel sorry for any black people who is married to white(albino) or planning on marrying white(albino). I truly feel sorry for you. the fact that you desire them, means that you lack understanding. Good luck with your choice. and remember, this is your choice, if you ever come to an understanding.

    mind takermind takerVor 2 Monate

      GodzillaGodzillaVor 2 Monate
  • Black Women How do You feel when your little girl doesn't look like you,Not looking like a Young Black woman,instead she looks Asian,White,etc....

    Timothy WhyteTimothy WhyteVor 2 Monate
    • It is dumb a** girls literally already racing themselves from the Earth out of their own narcissistic lust for a dollar bill or their perpetual fantasy expectation of love

      GodzillaGodzillaVor 2 Monate
  • Dated a Irish man, and I’m a black guy. It was hard to go to his family’s/friends/bars- but people judge you anyway so we never cared we just held each other and laughed at them

    Mike CarrMike CarrVor 2 Monate
  • Why say that most black men are in jail. That’s bullshit.

    ReginaReginaVor 2 Monate
    • Please open your eyes to how they want black women to act and think!

      GodzillaGodzillaVor 2 Monate
    • One thing I don't like about many of you black women Regina is that you really ask "why" How does anyone ask foolish questions like why knowing dam well there is an agenda on this Earth to destroy Melenated peoples!

      GodzillaGodzillaVor 2 Monate
  • Sadly and I am being real, from what I have seen men are materialistic they are not going to approach you unless you have what they want. And once they get it they dip and only think about themselves. I am quoting a foreign Indian movie called Veer Zaara. There is a huge difference between a mans love and a woman’s love. Women drop everything and love whole heartedly but men just don’t have the strength or the capacity to love like that. Even doing the basic minimum is a challenge- as women put yourself first and don’t expect men to do more than their basic duties. Maybe men were caring in the past but in this new generation it’s all about what you can offer them or how you can keep their interest. Sorry I had to vent.

    Sonia SiddiquiSonia SiddiquiVor 2 Monate
    • Sonia Siddiqui no men, Alot of men when not as financially Stable as they think they should be wouldnt even approach a girl, Some men at least wanna seem like they can provide in order to even deal with a girl

      Erin DuvergerErin DuvergerVor 2 Monate
    • Erin Duverger who women?

      Sonia SiddiquiSonia SiddiquiVor 2 Monate
    • Wrong They actually wouldnt apporach jawn unless THEY have what you want

      Erin DuvergerErin DuvergerVor 2 Monate
  • I could never ever date someone who is white

    baby aribaby ariVor 2 Monate
  • Every couple months this episode pops up in my recommended and I can’t help but rewatch it.

    Victoria Whitlock MusicVictoria Whitlock MusicVor 3 Monate
  • *So in prostitution which race gets more customers?!*

    godie godiegodie godieVor 3 Monate
  • Im married to a man with different culture and religion. It is hard because our family and culture are so different. You need to respect peoples difference and have an open mind. Then you can make your own rules together.

    Emily BethEmily BethVor 3 Monate
  • As a black man who dated all the colors of the rainbow I say BLACK WOMEN GO FOR IT DON'T LET ANYONE HOLD YOU BACK!

    Stephen AndersonStephen AndersonVor 3 Monate
  • Black women dont want to marry outside of their race allot of times because they view other raced men , and their families as boring or uninteresting , which happens in most cases . Black people , Black families are alot more outgoing , and alot more adventurous than other races . Other races generally can be not as much . Other races can be more homebody oriented . That is usually why other raced women want to marry Black men , to marry that man's outgoing party , cookout , vacations , spend a lot of money family atmosphere in alot of cases .

    Barry McCockinerBarry McCockinerVor 3 Monate
  • 0:30 she got buyers remorse for her white boy.

    jack mayhofferjack mayhofferVor 3 Monate
  • Ooooo loni ur so honest I love u❤️

    K HusnaK HusnaVor 3 Monate
  • Why is Loni constantly crying⁉️

    M PerryM PerryVor 3 Monate
  • I love her w my whole heart

    Dani CamachoDani CamachoVor 3 Monate
  • Why put out personal business, then feel some type of way when criticized. Keep it to yourself, and/or don't respond. Also being with a white man isn't the golden ticket to happiness.

    Dee MichelleDee MichelleVor 3 Monate
    • Dee Michelle No, but opening the door for more choices is the golden ticket for happiness.

      Marjania MJMarjania MJVor 3 Monate
  • There is someone for everyone but don't make an excuse of black men and prison being the reason.

    GenroMusicGenroMusicVor 3 Monate
  • I'm not trying to be funny, but I stopped dating black men and it was the best decision that I ever made.

    Senovia LewisSenovia LewisVor 3 Monate
    • @PB SAVAGE I got it baby.

      Senovia LewisSenovia LewisVor 3 Monate
    • Senovia Lewis excuses, go find yourself some love girl

      PB SAVAGEPB SAVAGEVor 3 Monate
  • Been chasing black women forever but now am might consider opening the door for everyone coz most black women want to date for their friends and family instead of finding true love. They want someone cute tall handsome rich to brag to their girls. Trophy men instead of tue love 🤘🏽✌🏽

  • Let's not missed the forest for the trees--sure love matters. However, this is another divisive ploy to impact African American communities. They are now focusing on Black women's loyalty. The strength of the African American communities is seen as a real threat only to them. Others don't care if we assemble in fellowship or dialogue or celebration. The American caucasian do, especially white men. They do everything whether it's with unjust laws or immoral tactics to undermine any endeavor that seems to strengthen the African American communities. The tactic here is to destroy the innate devotion Black women have for their men in hopes that it will be more impactful than say slavery, segregation, Jim Crow laws, unfair mass incarceration policies, & discriminatory educational and employment practices. Note: the conservative man and the so-called progressive man are both white men who seek to mitigate the advancement of African Americans.

    Blackchiney75Blackchiney75Vor 3 Monate
  • Lonnie is my fave!!!💗💗💗

    Love is the reason 777Love is the reason 777Vor 3 Monate
  • I've always noticed this(title)

    Love is the reason 777Love is the reason 777Vor 3 Monate

    Ashley ChaseAshley ChaseVor 3 Monate
    • Ashley Chase Can you blame people for wanting to be loved? Every human wants to be loved.

      Stefanny DvorakStefanny DvorakVor 2 Monate
  • No self control

    Luv1234Luv1234Vor 3 Monate
  • Black women always assume I don't want them and they never give me a shot. I prefer black women but at the end of the day a woman is a woman as long as she looks good, is loyal, and has a good personality. Not to mention I do not live in a predominantly black area.

    Traveler VolkriinTraveler VolkriinVor 3 Monate
PART TWO: Why Black Women Are Least Likely to Marry Outside Their Race