Ameera's 4th Birthday Recap / Co-parenting Story-time

Ameera's 4th Birthday Recap / Co-parenting Story-time
Hi guys!
Decided to upload this video to just give a bit of insight on Ameera's birthday get-together this past week and some additional things leading up to it. Sorry for all the stuttering and pausing... This story time came from the heart and I wanted to speak my side of things since I feel like I don't get to do this often.
To anyone going through struggles with co-parenting, you're not alone and your feelings and concerns are valid. Just remember - Communication is key to a healthy situation for your kids.

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  • MIZO'S 4TH BIRTHDAY PARTY HERE: de-visions.com/detail/video-T-C5ddprXEg.html WATCH NOW!

    jasminevillegasjasminevillegasVor 5 Monate
    • Jasmine she's going too be as gorgeous as u when she's older

      Caitlin peterseCaitlin peterseVor 3 Monate
    • She's growing!😍☺☺

      SelinasLyrics22SelinasLyrics22Vor 5 Monate
  • This is a late comment but I’m going through a split with t father of my daughter as well and there are times when I have felt like I’m a bad mother or just negative thoughts about my parenting and watching your video really put things into perspective and doesn’t make me feel alone. I wouldn’t want anyone to feel this way but at the same time I’m glad to know I’m not alone. You are such an inspiration to me Jasmine ever since you were younger and now watching you as a mother you still inspire me. Thank you for helping me during my tough times. Love you girl!!! 💖

    Kali_BaileyKali_BaileyVor 13 Tage
  • Why do you post coparenting issues on social media, when both of you have a massive following, knowing that your actions are going to cause people to harass & bully them online? He’s the father of your child, & Mizo will probably see it one day... yet you need people online to see you as the victim & you desperately need that attention. That’s not a real woman nor is it mature. But “it’s about Mizo.” You’re disgusting. Grow tf up. Handle your issues offline. They do & it shows where the maturity truly lies here.

    Michelle MMichelle MVor 16 Tage
  • God Bless 🙏🏾💜, have an Blessed one everyone , may God protect over you all Amen 🙏🏾💜

    Janiah JonesJaniah JonesVor 19 Tage
  • Can we just genuinely appreciate how brave she was to actually to not only make this video but to be so transparent about something so painful .....❤❤ - lots of love and strength to you jas! You inspire us

    Crazy Teen VlogsCrazy Teen VlogsVor Monat
  • I’m a step mom and we all get along ! The little girl loves me , and I love her like my own. It actually came perfect because I always wanted to adopt . I would do anything for that baby ❤️

    Mailen JaimesMailen JaimesVor Monat
  • You are a great Mom Jasmine!!! You don't have to justify yourself to anyone. Like you said you know your a good mom and so does your daughter that's all that matters. Your always going to get those negative comments on social media. Don't read those negative comments anymore. Rise above them. You know who you are. We love you!!!💝💝💝

    Donna Le PoreDonna Le PoreVor Monat
  • you just toxic 😭

    Oscar MOscar MVor Monat
    • How, please elaborate

      J JJ JVor Monat
  • ♥️ Our children, regardless of their parent's relationship status, want just five things: love, acknowledgment, inclusion, joy, & opportunities. Should it really be that hard to get out of our feelings to let them feel like their life matters too? After divorce, nothing tells our kids they are still important like truly great co-parenting.

    The Co-Parenting CollectiveThe Co-Parenting CollectiveVor Monat
  • Just noticed, did Ronnie deleted his old videos with Jasmine? I tried to look for it but i can't see any old videos except the vids with mizo

    Vannesa MarielVannesa MarielVor Monat
  • I see your pain and as a mother myself I feel your pain. Im 21 and I have a 3 month old baby boy and people are always wanting to borrow him. Im married though so completely different situation but like my mom or sister or my husband's parents want to see or borrow the baby and I'm so greedy I don't want to share my baby i feel like because im 21 everyone assumes I don't want to be with my baby and any chance i get to get him off my hands I'll jump right to it. Im not the type to want to party. I chose to have a baby so im going to be the mom I am and be with my child. Thanks to corona I've been able to spend every single day with my baby. I planned my baby with my husband, we werent married at the time. And any minute i can spend with my baby i will spend it with him. I dont want people taking him, the world is scary and I have a certain way I want to raise him which everyone seems to disagree with. If i say i dont want him eating fast food or out all the time im a bad mom because I'm being a "white mom" and overprotective. I struggled with my weight and appearance my whole life and i dont want him to gain weight and feel the same. And because of corona nobody sees the baby. But because I dont let anyone hold him im a "bad mom", I'm "mean", I'm "too overprotective" I'm "an asshole", I "became a bitch when I became a mom". A 9 MONTH OLD DIED FROM CORONA IN ILLINOIS. I take this pandemic very seriously. My family is always like look i went out and im fine. ok and? Corona symptoms take 1-2 weeks to appear. My baby was born march 5th and 5 days later Illinois (where I live) declared state of emergency because of covid and a week later we went into lockdown. I didn't become a bitch when I became a mom, I became a mom amid a pandemic. Everyone insists on seeing and holding him I just feel so disrespected as a mother. I think because im a young mom people want to make me feel like I'm too young to understand parenting and Im making "harsh" decisions like this and im new to this so i don't know what im doing. And it's so annoying. His pediatrician advised me to keep him isolated from people who we dont live with. I live with my husband so he sees the baby obviously. But then moms like "well he went to walmart and he can see the baby. And i go to target and i cant see him. Why??" And i tell her why and shes like ok and? Like totally just questioning my parenting ....for MY baby. And then my mother in law does or says some rude ass shit and i tell my husband and hes like ignore her its fine. Ignore her??? DEFEND ME IM UR WIFE. So then he doesn't and i defend myself and then i come off as the asshole cause i defended myself because my husband was too scared to confront his parents. I argued with my mother in law i told her im sick of her disrespectful shit and she apologized and i didnt message her back again. She comes a month later to see the baby (from a distance) and she says "lets see if the mom wants to let us borrow the baby later". The mom? I have a name. Thats equivalent to ronnie calling jasmine "my ex". Rude mfs. I feel u jasmine when u said ronnie doesnt defend u. As a mother to our mans kids, the MAN needs to step up for us mothers but when they dont they just piss us off and make us look bad when we do it ourselves and its frustrating af. 😠 im tired of people saying im an asshole mom and a bitch and "oh its cuz ur half puerto rican that's why ur a bitch" im a MOM who loves her baby and wants the best for him. If you cant see that my intentions are genuine then YOU are the problem.

    Maisy PerezMaisy PerezVor Monat
  • You used to date Austin Mcbroom right??

    Daphne JacksonDaphne JacksonVor 2 Monate
  • Ronni does it for views, you keep being the great mom you are ❤️💕 don’t ever change who you are

    chickwithlonghair03chickwithlonghair03Vor 2 Monate
  • There’s so much people make of things that wasn’t the intended point. Like yes Macky is amazing with ameera which is of course appreciated but at the same time as a woman and as a mother it’s always gonna sting just a little bit having someone else provide that role to your child whether you want it to or not. Also yes Ronnie may be great to macky and a great dad but that in no way should be allowed to invalidate jas’ feelings and the reality of what was their relationship; people are different around certain people so the man that he is for macky may not necessarily be the man he was for jas, there’s nothing wrong with that but it does need to be noted that people feel different things and just because macky knows him as he is now for her doesn’t mean people can say whoever he was for jas didn’t exist. At the end of the day Mizo has got incredible parents (biological and step) who love her deeply and only want the best for her which is all that matters and is all that should matter moving forward regardless of what anyone on the outside of the 5 of them has to say!!

    Natasha TNatasha TVor 2 Monate
  • Very well spoken, as a single teen mom (I’m 21 my son is 5 ) going through the same thing I commend you ❤️

    Zully RomanZully RomanVor 2 Monate
  • I thought it was petty of them to switch your words around. Like when you mentioned about the outfits, you said that people call you a bad mother. And it’s because you don’t expose every thing you do with your daughter how they do with matching outfits & etc. Mackie or whatever her say is switched your words around & states why they do the matching outfits, but you never said you had a problem with it?

    April BarronApril BarronVor 2 Monate
  • I love how highly you speak of Makeala! Whilst still speaking your truth

    Harriet GuglielminoHarriet GuglielminoVor 2 Monate
  • Thank you thank you for this. Jasmine, I’ve always loved you, even before Ronnie had met Makaela. From a young age I always enjoyed watching your journey. I’m from Hawaii, I have so much more respect for you sister. You are such an amazing mother, sister, friend and role model. Love you Jasmine! ❤️🙌🏽

    Rachel DeCostaRachel DeCostaVor 2 Monate
  • To just sit here and talk girl your brave God bless you ❤️

    Mis Mascotas y NicholeMis Mascotas y NicholeVor 2 Monate
  • Honestly, I really disliked you up until I watched this video in it’s entirety. I thought you were petty but you really were just hurt & for reasons I understand now. I thought you were bashing them in this video but you’re really not, you’re just saying how you felt. I’m sorry for judging your character before I knew it! You seem like an amazing mother & I really appreciate how you value people over things. Wish you the best.

    Jessica MartinJessica MartinVor 3 Monate
  • I feel like she just wants Amira to know that Jasmine is her mom get me like she doesn’t want Amira to be confused or anything because at the end of the day Jasmine is Amira’s real mom and I would feel the exact hurt that Jasmine is feeling if my child didn’t know Who was her real mom

    Lauren laurenLauren laurenVor 3 Monate
  • Girl I love you ! You are so damn mature and great with your damn words. 👏🏼

    Selena FerreiraSelena FerreiraVor 3 Monate
  • Honestly all this shouldn't even be on DE-visions PERIOD it's between you TWO the parents not all of social media 🥴

    Nadine GNadine GVor 3 Monate
  • If you really felt like there’s “nothing wrong” with the way there parading around then you wouldnt be feeling “hurt” girl just keep it hot it’s uncomfortable and painful as the mother to see another women in your daughters life and it’s ok but if your being a great mother and making Mizo your main priority then ain’t no reason to feel like that and don’t pay attention to what people say they ain’t Mizos mom your Mizos mom point blank period !!!

    Diana VazquezDiana VazquezVor 3 Monate
  • What a strong woman! I feel you, I understand you. Wow!! You’re so strong!!

    Geneva EbsGeneva EbsVor 3 Monate
  • I LOVE that you don’t “exploit” your daughter on your social media platforms because the relationship you have with your daughter is an intimate one and not everyone needs an explanation especially with so many people wanting to keep tabs. I personally feel like so many you tubers now exploit children for the purpose of views and money which is sad because it doesn’t seem genuine but you’re doing great, very mature of you to handle things this way!

    Jazzlyn CoriaJazzlyn CoriaVor 3 Monate
  • I find it funny how you say you will stand up for him if someone disrespects him and you would expect the same back. You have people in the comments talking crap and disrespecting him and all you’re doing is liking the comments so you agree with what they say but the good comments you’re not liking and ignoring. You make no sense and you’re very contradicting.

    Jailene RodriguezJailene RodriguezVor 3 Monate
  • ur such a good mom jasmine!! and you've grown so much over the years u can tell mizo really brought the best out in you and is so lucky to have you as a mom. i've been supporting you since I was 12 lol i'm 24 now! much love ❤️

    Sapna DerocheSapna DerocheVor 3 Monate
  • I don’t think Ronnie has moved on from Jasmine, the way he seems bitter towards her shows it all.

    Carolina SerranoCarolina SerranoVor 3 Monate
  • 🎉🎂🎈

    Ace HardyAce HardyVor 3 Monate
  • I totally get you. Shoot I would’ve showed up there and met her early on....I don’t need any permission from dad or anyone else to talk to the person that’s getting my child dressed. Yes!!!! Your feelings are valid. You are very mature. I’m 27 and I probably wouldn’t have handled it as well. You rock mama!!!!!

    Aly FloAly FloVor 3 Monate
  • I remember you when we were little at your cousins house in san jose on barlow avenue lol

    iTs MARi biTs MARi bVor 3 Monate
  • I love the way you spoke about the situation ! Honestly I use to be a subbie for Ronnie but something about their vids seem wack besides that the man you have now is a gentleman y’all were meant to be 👏🏼🙏❤️

    Daisy RuizDaisy RuizVor 3 Monate
  • Moral of this story birth control and marriage first youngsters!!!

    Revenue TVRevenue TVVor 3 Monate
  • LET'S DO A SONG!!!

    Revenue TVRevenue TVVor 3 Monate
  • Your so beautiful Jas...I just can't believe your pregnant. We blamed you because we didn't know the why and it was so public except for the issues. You fine tho 😂 u better remember me and you also know my younger cousin Rashid...

    Revenue TVRevenue TVVor 3 Monate
  • The Banks’ response doesn’t even address the problems you have raised because they clearly miss the point of this video. You didn’t turn back after the party and spoke shit about them, you actually pointed out how helpful that experience was in supporting you go through all this.

    Karina BucurKarina BucurVor 3 Monate
  • I think people are misunderstanding these two videos, as someone who doesn’t follow their every move. I see this as Jasmine sharing her story on co-parenting, the double standards and resentment (or feelings) that grew from all of that after their breakup, her new relationship and realizing the situation as a whole. I can understand how people see it as she painted it Ronnie ‘badly’ but you all need to understand that was WAAAY back then. These aren’t new feelings. She has a new man and she seems to be on better terms with Ronnie if their able to be civil with each other and with Makaela. They’ve talked it out off camera (Ronnies video) and they both saw where things were misunderstood. As long as that little girl is being loved equally, taken care of properly, and happy no one should have a problem.

    Erica OrtizErica OrtizVor 3 Monate
  • please we want new song seme like before????

    black white bdblack white bdVor 3 Monate
  • I felt this .. but like you said at the end of the day our daughters are going to know who was there for them❤️❤️ keep you the amazing work !

    Lesslie QuirarteLesslie QuirarteVor 3 Monate
  • I love Jasmine, soooo mature. I can for sure hear and feel the pain in her voice and I am so happy she has gone through something so difficult so gracefully.

    Crystal VCCrystal VCVor 3 Monate
  • You are a great mother and person! ❤️ as long as God & your daughter knows, that’s all that matters❤️ keep your head up 🙏🏼

    Christine GChristine GVor 3 Monate
  • Jasmine is an amazing mom, I’ve always thought so! I used to love watching you and Ronnie’s videos but I did notice how you didn’t wanna be on camera and he would force it. Also it bugged me seeing how quickly he started making videos with Miakeyla, seems like he just wanted that DE-visions family channel no matter what, like he could of put anybody girl in that place. Didn’t feel organic. I Not to mention she does look a bit like you so he clearly has a type. It’s also weird that they been doing the matching outfits and stuff since pretty much day one and whenever I see it on ig I cringe cause the comments think that’s Mizo’s mother and that’s just wrong .

    Natasha FiguereoNatasha FiguereoVor 3 Monate
  • She sounds like she wants to cry when she talks about Ameera. That’s how you know she truly cares and loves her daughter. My mom went through a similar situation (minus the social media). My dad’s family, friends & new girl would all bash my mom because of my dad’s side of the story, but I KNOW how great of a mother she was and I’d shut all their shit down QUICK.

    Paola MorenoPaola MorenoVor 3 Monate
  • Jasmine I like u for who u r u r my role model nd u r an amazing parent no matter what U will always be my role model #Jasminator forever 😘

    Caitlin peterseCaitlin peterseVor 3 Monate
  • The first time I watched this video I was not trying to understand it because I follow them and was such a huge fan, but after seeing how Ronnie tried scamming a girl and how mak got into it just shows there true colors. Now seeing this video after seeing all of this I definitely see your side after being blinded sided by the fake image they try to portray. It’s all catching up to them. After rewatching this I can truly see how mature jasmine is and real she is compared to the banks.

    jackie ramosjackie ramosVor 3 Monate
  • Jasmine you’re so pretty such a beautiful soul god bless you and your daughter. Here to support you ❤️

    Cyn PCyn PVor 3 Monate
  • I am going through similar things and you are so positive Jasmine! This really helps me for the future when my ex has someone in his life 😊

    Amber RicoAmber RicoVor 3 Monate
  • Both of you guys are good parents but makaylah is a good parent to do you can’t just blam everything on her because like maki said she is going to treat Mizo the way she treats alyiah so I think all three of you guys are doing good

    Adrianne SaucedaAdrianne SaucedaVor 3 Monate
  • whenever i go to the banks family’s youtube, i see a thumbnail that looks very attractive, i click on the video then the whole video is just a freaking 20 minute vlog of him rambling. he always clickbaits his videos.

    - simp- simpVor 4 Monate
  • 😍

    Marleni VasquezMarleni VasquezVor 4 Monate
  • You are so genuine 💕😭🥰

    Lex1013Lex1013Vor 4 Monate
  • Nah nah nah... hearing all this you’re a great mother. Actually taking the time to spend your time with your daughter is what matters most. You don’t always have to post everything onto social media. And it’s great you shed light onto that because people really don’t understand that not everything needs to be posted for the whole world to see... Protect your peace sis, keep on doing you, keep on being the great mother you are. Social media is so toxic, sending lots of love to you and your lil family 💗

    Megan MouaMegan MouaVor 4 Monate
  • Is ameera calling her mom still mommy?? Or is she calling Ronnys girlfriend mom ?

    Maren NoraMaren NoraVor 4 Monate
  • You are a great Mom!!! 🙏💕🥰😘

    Raschel CastilloRaschel CastilloVor 4 Monate
  • Your life is not perfect but your face and personality is gosh you got the most perfect hairline nose eyes lips wow GOD blessed you so much😍 btw i love how mature you are about your situation WOW RESPECT GIRL!

    Hadassah ImmanuelHadassah ImmanuelVor 4 Monate
  • Damn girl...Ronnie and his babymomma did you wrong on their video...I’m glad I watched this video too. Hope you’re feeling better Jas ❤️ love you and Mizo!! ❤️❤️

    Blackpink TrashBlackpink TrashVor 4 Monate
  • Girl amen live in the moment it sucks we live in a world where u can’t just enjoy the time with ur kid instead they want u to pull out ur phone 2 show ur with her lord let this woman live her life after a break up ur focused on learning yourself all over again & getting on ur feet damn no one gave her a grace period ... anyways on a lighter note blessing to u & ur fam keep doing u 🙏

    Liz CelentoLiz CelentoVor 4 Monate
  • I notice fathers love to bash the mother of their child after she held their baby for 9 months and went through a roller coaster transformation. Both parties should respect one another. Grow up and raise your child together regardless the circumstances.

    Kay MarieKay MarieVor 4 Monate
  • Girl....you can just tell how mature you are and have grown from everything. But just watching the other vid, you can visibly see how much learning they still have to do and how immature and negative they are.

    Arzo PopalArzo PopalVor 4 Monate
  • Thank for this I’m going through this . And they always make me feel like I’m crazy like I’m a hater just because I’m fighting for the things I want for my baby . Thanks soooo much it makes me feel better 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

    Ashley SmithAshley SmithVor 4 Monate
  • Honestly, if i was a mother i wouldn’t want to be around a mans baby if it wasn’t okay with the mother. Or atleast without meeting the mother. That is so important! So i completely understand Jasmines side and i commend her for being mature about it unlike the “banks family” lmao

    Mayra ZuviriMayra ZuviriVor 4 Monate
  • i never comment on anything but i have too on this video , your truly are an amazing person and i wish you all the best with your pregnancy and new beginnings. This video really helped me and hit me in a different way. Real and Raw thank you for being you❤️

    BellaBellaVor 4 Monate
  • Think you so much for sharing this . Out of all the bad things that have happen in my life you have given me hope to move on . Life is so amazing for me now knowing that even though I struggle with school and relashionips at the age of 18 now . I realised that life is never over because someonething bad has happened or I don't like how something came out to be. THINKS SO MUCH!

    Kiara WilsonKiara WilsonVor 4 Monate
  • I didn’t see anything wrong with this video honestly I’d feel the exact same way if I was jasmine I totally understand how she feels and I’ve also been on the other side too in mackys situation of “playing” mom to another woman’s daughter so I understand both sides but jasmine said nothing wrong here

    Anersha RainAnersha RainVor 4 Monate
  • I'm bored of this... I'm off.

    SAMMAYA BUTTSAMMAYA BUTTVor 4 Monate
  • Karma is starting to get Ronnie .. just sayin 😳

    Diana ClarosDiana ClarosVor 4 Monate
  • i have always and will always love and respect you. i know how much people try to tear you down. i’ve rocked with you for so long and a big reason why i know this is because you are real about it. you expose certain situations that are hard & that majority of people would never address. you have always been so strong and true to yourself. you more than anyone knows that. you’ve worked with foundations to help girls in abusive relationships, you’ve dealt with the backlash of so many strangers, and so much more. and you have never hid any of it. whenever i come to watch your videos it reminds me of why & how much i love and respect you for that. i think you’re amazing and i’m glad you didn’t take down this video or anything. truthfully i don’t believe you said anything wrong.. no matter how people perceived it, you’re entitled to your opinion and that is YOUR daughter. you have every right to your feelings because this is your family. and that’s your world right there. anyway, thank you for always being an inspiration to me. the way you handle things are true and real and i love to see the growth in you and maturity. it also shows so much that you don’t care to post shit because like you said it leaves the room to people to tear it down. love you always.. stay strong queen 👑 ❤️

    Susana NunezSusana NunezVor 4 Monate
  • P.S... love you since day one your girl BEBA from NY.... :) my comment was outta love nothing more !

    Jenni MJenni MVor 4 Monate
  • I just feel like he trying to replace you with his new chick in my point of view. Like why wait so dam long until now of course Ameera going to be confused because Ronnie been lowkey grimy and childish. Like I feel like she should of went back home with you on her birthday at least . Ameera woke up over there with him and his girl and its like you barely had time with her like I'm speaking like if was me. Although like you said your strong but you have a right to be upset to and you don't need to say sorry . because your her mom not her and its like they brain showing Ameera and showering her with so much …. like for explain the birthday party I saw your face I just wanted to hug you for Ameera because I know it hurt that she was hugging them and just left you standing there like if you was a stranger and she did the same thing in chucky cheese . I don't know I just see thing very different I don't have a child and I honestly cant wait but, this shows me and teaches me how wisely ima choose my Childs father .That's going to probably be hard or easy but I'm willing to wait and I'm glad you found your man , because he loves you and I can see that from a far so congrats. and my comment is not to start drama at all but I don't want the obvious prove noticed. we are a lot alike in a few things and idk you from a whole in the wall but I know it still hurts even if its just a little …. don't let Ronnie get that upper hand because it feels to me like he forgot who Ameera mom really is.

    Jenni MJenni MVor 4 Monate
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